How to Think About Learning Seduction: An Interview With Rob Judge
I had an unreal time at the 21 Convention in Orlando and one of the great byproducts of my attendance was that I was able to do a couple of interviews with some of my good friends and other recommended instructors.
In this video I sat down Rob Judge and we talked a little bit about how to learn game. I first met Rob a couple months ago in New York City and was instantly impressed with his demeanour. This is a guy who knows what’s up with girls and he gets my seal of approval.
I don’t want to give too much away so just grab a beer, sit back and flick on the video!
How to Make Sexual Escalation Fun
We’ve all been there at the end of the night. You’re pouring a drink and flicking on some music while trying to figure out how you’re going to make the move on her.
Maybe the end of the night is coming fast. It’s getting late and you’re both beginning to yawn. She might have mentioned how she has to get up early for work and all of a sudden the pressure is on.
It doesn’t matter if you met her at the bar that night or if you two were on a date and ended up back at your place. What matters is that there seems to be this barrier or expectation of something to happen and yet it just seems the minutes feel like they’re slipping away. Read more
Best Testimonial Ever
I just received not only the best testimonial that I’ve ever gotten… but the best testimonial I’ve SEEN in the seduction industry. I’ll let it speak for itself.
I recently attended the 21 Convention 2010 and won a free 45 minute consultation with Chris Orleans. Chris was very attentive, easy to relate to, and truly wanted to help improve my game. He gave me some very valuable insights that led me to rethink where and the way I approach women. He also talked me through some selection criteria, and gave pointers on generating a connection with the women I wanted. BAM! The night after the consult, I lost my virginity, approach anxiety, and feel like a new man! If you are debating signing up with a bootcamp or consult with Chris, DON’T THINK! Do it! Can’t recommend him enough!
- EJ, Olympia WA
If you’re ready to take the next step and see results like this, get in touch with me and lets talk about doing some work together!
Three Simple Questions for Seamless Escalation
I just spent the most fantastic weekend at the 21 Convention in Orlando! It’s been so great to see all my friends who are globetrotting and doing amazing things to revolutionize the way the seduction industry operates. It’s very rare for someone to have an understanding of the job I have and it’s always nice to shoot the shit with my boys about the different aspects of the profession.
On top of all of that I get to help a massive amount of men develop themselves as opposed to doing the one on one’s that I’ve been working on these days. I always say that I’m just trying to change the world one person at a time… but if I can reach 100’s or thousands all at once then I’m all for that opportunity! I actually gave away a free 45-minute consultation during my speech and it turns out that the very next night after sitting down with me the guy lost his virginity! It’s stories like this that make me proud to be doing what I am. Definitely will be linking you to my speech when it goes up.
Sitting here in a Starbucks in boring Jacksonville, NC has given me a chance to reflect on the various parts of the convention and I wanted to talk to you guys about the one question I got asked more than anything else during the last 4 days.
What is the biggest issue you see when you’re dealing with clients in the field?
The answer immediately jumps out at me. Escalation.
6 Quick Tips That Will Make You Instantly Better At Day Game
Ahhh, day game. You meet hotter, cooler, smarter women that don’t go out to bars, or if they do they won’t have the same bar star attitude. It’s easier to make genuine connections and day game attraction is a breeze. The best part is that it costs nothing to get good at and will help other areas of your game as well.
Day game is kind of my thing. After working on it and how to teach it for a good 9 months I have found that there are certain things you can implement that will skyrocket the success of your interactions in a very short period of time and I’d like to share those with you.
So here we go! Read more
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I expect the schedule to fill up quickly so act now and lets talk about what’s going on with you.
What to Say to Her
Have you ever been standing in a bar and you could swear that the girl of your dreams just walked by and if only you just knew what to say to her she’d fall madly in love with you?
Haha that’s a very specific and unreal scenario but ask yourself this? Have you ever not walked up to talk to a girl who you were interested in because you didn’t know what to say? Have you ever just ordered another drink and watched from the bar as some other guy walks up and obviously said the perfect thing because she’s now laughing and touching him?
We’ve all been there, I can remember all those frustrating nights where I thought that if only I had the perfect line I’d be walking out of that place with her, only to let the situation fly on by. It’s not a fun feeling.
Well, I have good news and bad news. The good news is that I’m going to tell you exactly what you need to say to a girl to start a conversation. The bad news is that as much as it seems like you just need is a line to win her over, it’s not going to solve your problems, all it will do is get you in the door and buy you time.
But lets stick to the problem at hand and not worry about that for now. Read more
How to Structure Your First Text Message
So you got the number! That’s awesome! I can’t express how happy I am for you… but I have some bad news.
The game has just begun.
A number is unfortunately, in itself, worthless. It’s only a point of contact. What you do with the number is vastly more important and can be the deciding factor in whether you ever see this girl again.
Most importantly is what you do with the first attempt at contact.
A fellow budding seducer recently had this exact problem.
“So if you guys didn’t know already I got my first # close. Feels awsome but anyways, what do I do next? I sent her “Hey its *name removed*. If you’re free tomorrow u can show me around or something.” Only problem with that text is I don’t know if she actually got it and didn’t get a reply. Should I call her in a few days or what? Im just excited I got a number from a hottie”
We’ve all been there, but we must get past this excitement… so what could he have done better? Lets break this down. Read more
Welcome to the Blog & Website of Chris Orleans!
I would like to officially welcome you to my little piece of cyberspace. But who am I and why should you even give a shit?
Frankly, I don’t think anyone can tell you that except for yourself.
I help men learn how to meet and develop sexual relationships with women and I’ve been doing it for a long enough time that I feel like if you’re not happy with your love life I can help you.
What makes me qualified? I have to giggle every time someone asks me this because in all honesty there’s no degree I could have or credential I could attain to make me sound official enough to do this. So I’ll just lay it out for you. What makes me qualified is the fact that thousands of men from military officers to E.R. physicians spread across the world who were in a position not unlike yourself have put their faith in me to coach them through the daunting task of fixing their love lives woes and have gone on to have tremendous success whether it be with sexual abundance or getting married. Read more