Ahhh, day game. You meet hotter, cooler, smarter women that don’t go out to bars, or if they do they won’t have the same bar star attitude. It’s easier to make genuine connections and day game attraction is a breeze. The best part is that it costs nothing to get good at and will help other areas of your game as well.

Day game is kind of my thing. After working on it and how to teach it for a good 9 months I have found that there are certain things you can implement that will skyrocket the success of your interactions in a very short period of time and I’d like to share those with you.

So here we go!

1. You have to get her stopped

If you fail at stopping a girl who’s walking you’re going to have a hell of a time creating any kind of connection with her. You must get her to stop walking. The best way I’ve found to do this if your approach failed to stop her is to stick out your hand and introduce yourself. When she takes your hand to shake it you stop walking and she will as well.

2. Don’t approach from the front if you’re walking down the street

What does it say about you if you jump out in front of her as she’s walking towards you? First of all, you’re weird. Second, you were probably thinking about approaching girls.

I never approach from the front, I always wait until they’ve walked by and then I turn around and approach from behind after she’s about 10 feet away. The last thing you want a girl thinking when you’re doing an approach is that you’ve done it before. She wants to feel special so don’t ruin that effect.

3. Structure your first 15 seconds

The first 15 seconds is the hardest, you don’t want anything unpredictable happening because you’re going to be so nervous that you won’t be able to deal with it properly.

I personally like the following: “Hey, I know this is totally crazy and I never do anything like this but I think you’re absolutely adorable and I just had to come meet you or I knew I’d be kicking myself all day long… I’m Chris.”

Don’t be afraid to show some nerves but make it clear that it’s because you never do this, not because she makes you nervous. The former is ballsy and understandable. The latter is weak.

4. Playful is better than intense

Despite what the movies say, the James Bond approach doesn’t work. It’s much better to be playful and flirty than intense. A girl would rather the approach be lighthearted than heavy and overbearing. So drop the scowl and put a smile on your face!

5. Always ask for the contact information

Always. You need to develop the habit of doing it, even when you’re sure you won’t be getting it. Even if a girl tells me “I have to get going I’m actually late” I’ll reply with “That’s totally cool I understand, but listen you seem like a fun girl and I’d love to get to know you more so why don’t we exchange phone numbers and I’ll give you a call sometime.” It doesn’t always work, but when it does it’s gold. Be brave and get in the habit of being a closer.

6. Look presentable

You wouldn’t approach a girl who looks like she just rolled out of bed, why would a girl be interested in you if you looked the same. ZZ Top had it right when they said every girl’s crazy for a sharp dressed man, so wise up and make sure you look attractive before you go out into the world.

Day game is a blast to learn and is even more fun when you get really good at it. Just doing one approach a day will make you feel like a million bucks and will build momentum for your game. Don’t let the fear get you down, do it and you’ll be happy that you did!

Stumble it!