For more reasons why girls don’t like you go to Part 1.

1. You don’t lead – Leadership is essential not only in life but especially with women. Taking responsibility not only for your own actions and enjoyment but also for those around you without hesitation is at the core of being a man and is tremendously attractive.

It’s the little things, for one I never let a girl drag me around a bar like an accessory. If we’re walking through the bar I’ll grab her hand and lead through the crowd as opposed to putting her in a situation where she has to fight through a crowd getting bumped and pushed around. Yet despite this very simple and obvious change of dynamic night after night I see guys being dragged around by their girlfriends and all I can think to myself is that it’s pretty obvious who wears the pants.

Become a competent leader of groups and women and you’ll get better responses from the most attractive women in the room.

2. You have no goals or drive to attain them – Attraction is created through the defined polarity of the masculine and the feminine. So basically the more you bring out your masculine side and reinforce her femininity the more attraction will be present.

I’d be hard pressed to think of something more masculine than a man of achievement. Women are attracted to drive and accomplishment and if you have no goals or ambition you’re going to be hard pressed to find a woman who wants to spend the rest of her life with you.

Think of this as an extension of “get a life”.

3. You’re too nice – You drive the speed limit, eat quietly at the dinner table, your movie rentals are always returned on time, you apologize if someone bumps into you and you always make sure she feels like a princess.

Guess what buddy, you’re too fucking nice and it’s going to get you nowhere with women.

If you smile at everything, speak softly and make sure that everyone comes before you then you’re just never going to be her first choice.

I’m not saying you should beat your women and snort cocaine off the bar but be heard, be assertive, have a bit of an edge to your personality and break some rules from time to time. Embrace a wilder side, especially when it comes to your sexuality.

4. You’re trying to impress her – DHV stories are sooo 2003. If you have to talk about how cool you are then you’re probably not that cool.

It’s ok to be boisterous. No one got laid being humble. But if you have to try to impress a woman instead of just being an impressive man then maybe you need to hit the drawing board.

Impress her through your social consciousness, actions and mannerisms. Not through “this one time” stories.

5. Dating isn’t a priority – If you don’t make the commitment to yourself to get better with women then you aren’t going to get better. You get back what you put into this part of your life.

Whether you’re old or young, rich or poor, you have a seducer inside of you. This is your love life and you need to prioritize it as an important thing. If you don’t you’re just wasting your own time.

Stumble it!