After 4 years of coaching men around the world, speaking at 2 of the largest men’s dating conventions, being featured in magazines, newspapers and on several online podcasts and blogs I feel confident in saying that I’ve learned a LOT in regards to women and dating.

But this isn’t how the story started.

Do you remember the kid in school who everyone laughed at?  The kid that got picked on, maybe even beat up and generally was viewed as the loser?  Maybe you were that kid or maybe you were on the other side of the fence and doing the bullying, for me it doesn’t matter because I wasn’t either.

I was worse, a ghost.

Throughout my childhood well into college I was a complete social outcast.  I didn’t have a spot in the social ladder and as far as others were concerned I didn’t exist.  No one knew who I was, no one paid attention to me and I generally went about my day until I could go home, boot up my computer and drift off into a world in which my personality and social skills didn’t really matter, the “World of Warcraft” syndrome.

So where’s this sob story going?

Everything I had experienced up until this point had led me to a life in which I had 0 women.  I was alone and even worse, I was lonely.

Then there was this one girl. The one girl I really liked.  She wasn’t the most beautiful girl or the coolest, hell she wasn’t the best at anything, but she was nice to me and I latched onto that.  I remember how excited I was when she agreed to go to a concert with me. It felt great to buy two tickets instead of one but then I remember how horrible and abandoned I felt after we walked in the door together and she saw some friends she knew and ditched me, for the whole night.

It was at that moment that I decided something HAD to change, I just couldn’t keep this up any longer.  My LIFE had to change.

So, I got to work.

After searching for dating advice all over the internet I found that everyone had “good” tips for me and would jump to tell me what was right and what was wrong.  But after a while no matter what I learned or tried I began to realize that everything I had been told just felt wrong.  Dating and meeting women had become like a job, “do this”, “do that”, “don’t say that”, it was no longer fun and isn’t that what hanging out with chicks was supposed to be?  The reality was that I was getting nothing but poor advice from poor teachers, I wasn’t achieving the success I wanted.  So I there in the towel and just said “fuck this”. Instead I decided to just try a bunch of different things to see what worked and what didn’t. I went out more,  partied a lot and tried to meet women, I wasn’t really trying to do anything but be myself.  All I wanted was to express myself in a way that was emotionally compelling so people would want to be around me.

As time went by I began to notice something, I was getting it.  People started to smile more around me, people wanted to talk to me and hang out with me.  I got invited to do more things and most importantly, girls began to pay attention to me and they would look at me in a different way.

Soon, much to my surprise, my friends started coming to me with their questions and problems. At first I felt completely out of my element and wondered how they could think that I was any kind of authority on the issue at all. In my mind I was still the same person just trying to get out there and meeting more people. My own self image started turning around when my friends were coming back and telling me my tips worked! At that point I found that I was helping make the world a little bit easier for some people and that put a huge smile on my face.

After 4 years of experience as a dating coach and teaching thousands of men what I offer is simply what I was looking for all those years ago.  My goal is to teach only the highest impact techniques, mindsets and skills to get you the results you’ve always wanted with women.

Have you ever had something that you wanted to do so bad but it just seemed so out of reach?  What if you could start taking steps towards that goal right now?  With my curriculum, meeting and dating women will no longer be hard task, it’ll just be.  While other people teach you what to say, how to act, my aim is to remove all the unnecessary  baggage you’ve built up your entire life so that you don’t need to do anything, you just show up.

Simply, I want to turn you into a dating superstar, the only real question is are you ready for your LIFE to change?

-Chris Orleans