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(I know this picture has absolutely nothing to do with this post. Buuuttttt I like looking at it and figured you would too. Plus it makes it look like she’s working hard, which I have been.)
Wow. I feel like it’s been forever since I’ve written an update for this blog. So where the hell have I been and what the hell have I been doing?
Well let’s start with where I’m at now and then we’ll talk about the exciting news I have for you.
Personally, I’ve never been better. I’ve got a great girlfriend who I’m crazy about and we’re going on a year together- it’s pretty exciting. It’s funny, I can almost hear you scoffing at me, saying how I’m out of the game now… but guess what. We have threesomes. A lot of them. So all you haters can suck on that.
In other news, I’ve taken up DJ’ing as a hobby. While it’s not serious at the moment I hope to get into a club to start playing for crowds at some point in the new year. Read more
A couple of days ago I did a interview for my friend over at the Seduce Anywhere Podcast. It’s got a lot of great content on sexual escalation, touch strategies, logistical planning and a lot more. It went so long in fact that we had to do it in two parts. Hit up the following two links to go have a listen!
You’re looking into her eyes, and she’s looking into yours. You put your hands on her waist and she throws her arms around your neck. Everything else seems to slip away, the music fades and the people vanish. You’re locked in a moment with this woman and the only thing on your mind is how good her lips are going to taste as you slowly inch forward for your first kiss with her.
Attraction is what makes this interaction possible. It’s the catalyst for the comfort associated with romance. A woman obviously isn’t going to let you put your hands all over her if she’s not into you on some level…
It is this ultimate gateway that most men will never be able to consistently break through- the key word here being consistently. Even a pig can find a truffle and more often than not there will be a few occasions in which a man and a woman can work together.
But how does attraction really work and how can we make ourselves unconditionally attractive rather than just occasionally?
I’m usually quite private about my personal life when it comes to writing things online. I like to keep things business oriented and allow a connection to form with my clients rather than just throwing everything out there. Today, however, I’d like to talk about one of my personal passions.
I’m a bit of a music enthusiast.
It’s my belief that music is the language of our soul. The music someone enjoys and the passion in which they attach to various kinds of music can tell you a LOT about what kind of person is sitting in front of you.
Music is something that can connect people in a way that many other things cannot. Read more
For more reasons why girls don’t like you go to Part 1.
1. You don’t lead – Leadership is essential not only in life but especially with women. Taking responsibility not only for your own actions and enjoyment but also for those around you without hesitation is at the core of being a man and is tremendously attractive.
It’s the little things, for one I never let a girl drag me around a bar like an accessory. If we’re walking through the bar I’ll grab her hand and lead through the crowd as opposed to putting her in a situation where she has to fight through a crowd getting bumped and pushed around. Yet despite this very simple and obvious change of dynamic night after night I see guys being dragged around by their girlfriends and all I can think to myself is that it’s pretty obvious who wears the pants.
Become a competent leader of groups and women and you’ll get better responses from the most attractive women in the room. Read more
1. Hygiene – You smell like shit, your haven’t clipped your nose hair or cleaned up your unibrow and your teeth look like you just stepped out of late nineteenth century England.
You have got to get this fixed. Even just one of these things can immediately put you in damage control due to the blaringly obvious disqualifier that you could easily take care of. There is no excuse. Read more
In the final instalment of the 21 Convention 2010 Orlando interviews I sit down with my good friend Dan Rose and go over sexual confidence, why it’s important, how to develop it and how it applies to meeting women in general.
NOTE: Part 2 is wonky, I’m aware of this issue and am working to have it resolved.
Continuing along with the 21 Convention interview series my friend Adam Lyons and I sat down and recorded a 20 minute video for you guys. I first met Adam at the ‘07 World Pickup Summit and to be honest I thought he was a a dick at the time. It’s funny though, every time I have hung out with him since then I’ve found he’s a very kind and giving person who wants to have a good time and I’m glad to call this man my friend!
Anyways, these two videos outline something that could be called lifestyle game. It’s the process of creating a second social life filled with girls of your type. If you’ve ever wanted to get in big with the bar scene, strippers, professionals or otherwise cliquey crowds then this is something you need to be watching.
I had an unreal time at the 21 Convention in Orlando and one of the great byproducts of my attendance was that I was able to do a couple of interviews with some of my good friends and other recommended instructors.
In this video I sat down Rob Judge and we talked a little bit about how to learn game. I first met Rob a couple months ago in New York City and was instantly impressed with his demeanour. This is a guy who knows what’s up with girls and he gets my seal of approval.
I don’t want to give too much away so just grab a beer, sit back and flick on the video!
We’ve all been there at the end of the night. You’re pouring a drink and flicking on some music while trying to figure out how you’re going to make the move on her.
Maybe the end of the night is coming fast. It’s getting late and you’re both beginning to yawn. She might have mentioned how she has to get up early for work and all of a sudden the pressure is on.
It doesn’t matter if you met her at the bar that night or if you two were on a date and ended up back at your place. What matters is that there seems to be this barrier or expectation of something to happen and yet it just seems the minutes feel like they’re slipping away. Read more